You have to recognize your fear of your own death and keep it in mind. That makes our ego strong and capable of loving.
Why is that? Man is not on earth to spread fear and terror. If I have succeeded in giving my primal fear a permanent place in my consciousness, then my wanting changes. My self gains new dimensions. I am becoming more courageous towards myself. I recognize and pay attention to my ability to love and walk the gentle road from the Me to the You.